Archive for August, 2009

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Darius and mama have little of this world’s goods yet it is a special joy to meet them. Mama is always so grateful for the least help as her only affordable purchase seems to be “Sticks” biscuits to share with Darius. He is paralyzed so is confined to a hospital wheelchair but he beamed with delight when I gave him a book to colour!
What was his joy a little later when Traian Despa arrived with new wheelchair for himself. This means so much for mama too as she can have this at home and can take Darius for outings.
See Eduard and you, like so many others, will want to adopt him! This is not possible but, to lift him from his cot and sing to him really helps that little one smile and be contented. He is abandoned so our joy is to get him new pyjamas or a toy. Maybe one day a social mother will be found for him.

Orphans and abandoned children

Orphans and abandoned children

Cristi is a big boy of 18 years.
I have known him since he started coming as a patient when he was quite a little boy suspected of having asthma. Always he has been a quiet, polite boy – an orphan. Now, at 18 years it has been discovered he has cystic fibrosis. Wonderful to relate, we were able to add his name to the list of those for whom we provide a free meal daily. Now his joy is great as Traian Despa has called him to come to receive a gift he really needed – a warm pullover and an extra warm padded jacket with hood.
Alexandru practically lives in the intensive-care unit of 2nd floor at Budimex (Marie Curie) Hospital. He has a strange blood disease and is under intensive investigation. I once told him he was a great help in the playroom and now he appears every time I visit and demonstrates how he has tidied and really cared for the play material. All of this tells me such a lot e.g. how good it is to give that word of praise.

Freezing January, 2006

I could hardly believe it when I heard on the news that seventy six people had died on these streets in only three days. They could not survive at -25 deg. C, a record even for Romania which usually has cold winters. How can we help? That was the question in all our minds. What can we do for the families and individuals whom we know would be in trouble in such circumstances? We began by providing little blankets to the abandoned children in Budimex (Marie Curie) Hospital.

Not very far from Marie Curie Hospital is a family which lives in dire circumstances – no heat – no light – no water. We tried to imagine what it must be like to live there. We were glad to be able to send them hot soup, food, warm blankets and jumpers. They were so grateful especially as there are children.
Roxana, our paralyzed orphan friend, rejoiced to receive a warm blanket, warm jumpers and food. She could then better endure the cruel, freezing days.

One day, early in the morning, we received a phone call from the family of eleven children, crying for help because their gas had been cut off therefore no heating. All were frozen – what to do? We acted immediately, bringing them warm bedclothes, food and money to pay for the gas and have the heating restored – indescribable joy for them and happy moments for us.

Visiting the family of four invalid orphan boys we realized that the single source of heating (the stove) was completely broken down. Next day we engaged a workman to build a new stove and it was such a joy to provide wood for that fire!
Even if it is so cold outside I was so surprised to see children begging in the street, and, when I say children, I mean 7 or 8 years old. Unfortunately, we could only offer them warm hats and jumpers and a little money, but they need much more!

In the Oncology Department of Budimex (Marie Curie) Hospital, we met Mihai. He is an 18 year-old boy with a very sad anxious face. This is understandable because one of his legs will be amputated. Added to that, he told us he is coming from a very poor family which is not able to pay even the heating of the house. We were very impressed by this case and soon we helped them to pay the cost of heating. We then visited the family and provided food and clothes for the other four children. This family will remain on our permanent list of needy people, even if Mihai will not be with us.

Speaking of needy people, we have to remember our orphans or youth in need of our help to live and study. Raluca, Alin, Florin are very good students and it is a privilege for us to help them in their education. Also in this period we provide for them with warm clothes, food and money to pay for heating. It is hard to live in Bucharest without the support of parents.

We know Bunica (grandmother) for 14 years. She struggles to help her big family begging at the hospital gate and outside the church every weekend. Even in the coldest weather she comes with two grandchildren to get some food for other seven children remaining at home. We take them to a warm room and give them soup or tea plus sandwiches. We also make up parcels of food for them to take home. Warm clothes, blankets and money for fuel have been accepted by Bunica with tear-filled eyes… and we feel better!

Today we found out that Teodor and his brother will leave the hospital and go home to Vrancea – one place with the lowest temperature in Romania. Teodor is a 16 year-old boy who had a terrible accident and now is completely paralyzed. His story is one of the saddest stories I have ever heard. He had the accident working in the woods with his brother to make some money for his very poor family. We felt we must help this family to pass this so sad period by giving some money and food. And some warm blankets and clothes. At a special request from the doctors who were also impressed by this boy’s story we provided a new wheelchair. This is not compensation but it is a good help for his ruined life.
Angela, Rosemarie, Mrs. Teodorescu and her son, Mrs. Tanase, Adrian’s family and many others have been helped to pass this so cold month of January 2006.

Every morning we see in front of the Budimex (Marie Curie) Hospital or in front of the church or simply in the street frozen older or younger men or ladies calling for help. We try to do a little for everyone and the boxes full of good things sent by Sister Mary Therese are a very good support, we wish to do more…

God help everyone in the street and so we pray for a warmer February.

Sister Mary Aloysius

A Letter from Father Colin Golden

St. Bride’s Church,
Rie-Achan Road
Pitlochry PH16 5AL

June 2005

Dear Sister Aloysius,
Lawside Romania Project

Thank you very much for all your hospitality, during my recent visit to Bucharest.

Father Colin's 2005 visit to Romania

Father Colin's 2005 visit to Romania

Although only there for 5 days, we managed to pack so much into the short time. Unfortunately, it wasn’t the sights one would normally expect to see on a short city break, poverty, illness, such a lack of basic everyday needs, that we all take for granted, and this in a country only 3 hours from the UK. But they are memories that will always remain with me. Another memory that will remain is that of the welcome, that without exception I received at all the projects I visited.
The work being carried out by Lawside Romania Project is making such a difference to the lives of all that you reach out to, but I am aware that there remains still a great deal to be done.
To that end as a Parish, the people of Piltochry, Aberfeldy and Birnam hope to carry on fund raising for this wonderful project, and hope that our small contributions may continue to help.

With every best wish,

Father Colin Golden